Marriage and honour, in India, are not mutually exclusive. As dismaying as it sounds, even after so many years of independence, India and Indians are living in a world full of regressive beliefs that refuse to evolve with time.
Yes, we may call married, ‘domestic’ women homemaker now, but the oppressive notions still adjudge them as housewives.
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And God knows, there are very few who take a stand against the society that mocks the institution of marriage. Call it our stars but we have found one from the pool who has an important story to tell. A story of a bright girl who lost herself and her career to parental and societal pressure.
In a series of tweets, this story of a girl will make you ponder a lot of things.
Something's been pinching me for some days now. Thought of letting it out of my system by sharing it here. Here goes…….— Usman Ghani (@UGpk) February 15, 2017
Read the entire story here.
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There was this girl in my school, back in 90's. Brilliant, studious, hard working, very confident, a topper, a debater, a class prefect….— Usman Ghani (@UGpk) February 15, 2017
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We were class fellows. She was the kind of girl with whom boys talked after rehearsing. Despite mad competition between us, we were friends.— Usman Ghani (@UGpk) February 15, 2017
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I guess the proudest moments of my school and college life were whenever I scored better than her in exams. Couldn't beat her in confidence— Usman Ghani (@UGpk) February 15, 2017
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We both chose engineering after college and graduated. I chose to work in an industry and she chose to pursue Masters in engineering.— Usman Ghani (@UGpk) February 15, 2017
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Later, she joined one of the best universities of the country as a lecturer in Engineering. That's when her parents decided to marry her off— Usman Ghani (@UGpk) February 15, 2017
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An arranged marriage in a well off family meant that she had to quit job & live as a house wife. This wasn't all, guy was a college dropout.— Usman Ghani (@UGpk) February 15, 2017
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She resisted as much as she could. But after sometime, she agreed to everything saying, "my parents are too old& scared of me being single".— Usman Ghani (@UGpk) February 15, 2017
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Parents, too old and too scared. That was the reason for this brilliant girl to give up all her dreams, her ego and her career.— Usman Ghani (@UGpk) February 15, 2017
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The guy was nearly an uneducated, spoiled brat of a business family who couldn't stomach a woman having an education, or an opinion, or ego.— Usman Ghani (@UGpk) February 15, 2017
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In no time after her wedding she realized that he was verbally and physically abusive and his family supported and encouraged all this.— Usman Ghani (@UGpk) February 15, 2017
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But she kept quiet in the face of all abuse because her parents were too old and too scared.— Usman Ghani (@UGpk) February 15, 2017
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She had no money to spend on herself and her husband never bothered to give her a penny. She had already quit her job. So there was no way.— Usman Ghani (@UGpk) February 15, 2017
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Very recently she texted me that her husband had beaten her and given her talaaq twice and if after two times talaaq she could live with him— Usman Ghani (@UGpk) February 15, 2017
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Shocked, I asked why would she live with a man so abusive and so insulting.
Her reply was, "My parents are too old…. sick and scared."— Usman Ghani (@UGpk) February 15, 2017
“MY PARENTS ARE TOO OLD, SICK AND SCARED”
A reason that forces most of the girls with ambitions into a life of anonymity.
While that was her story, her friend tried his best that it doesn’t become somebody else’s.
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No, just carrying a briefcase to work doesn’t make you a feminist but standing up for your own rights and life choices does! If only people understood that.
We appreciate Usman’s efforts in throwing light at such a predicament and second his thoughts.
Source:StoryPick
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